What will "Kill" Your Ex?
SUCCESS!
YOU BEING HAPPY!
You Moving On!
How you do this is really very simple. There are steps that we all go thru. One of the most imortant of those steps is realizing that if you are in a divorce that one or both of you were not happy. Finding someone that is happy with you will make you happy. Life is really too short to waste another moment NOT being with someone that WANTS YOU TO BE HAPPY.
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Do you want to spend time with someone that does not want to spend time with you? Of course not, but we forget that and focus on the concept of marriage, rather than the simple concepts that we learned in kindergarten. If someone does not want to be your friend, find more friends!
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When a woman divorces a man she thinks that she is going to be better off. In the earlier years of life this may be true. All men should take solace in the fact that as you get older the ratio of men to women increases dramatically in favor of the men. YOU are the one with more choices now!
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Men "look good" much longer in that culturally a man with a few wrinkles is "distinguished" and a woman is just considered "old".
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Money! Yes, MONEY seems to be so important right now! After all, just like all of the comedians say, she will get half of your stuff. SO WHAT! Odds are that she will get more than half in most bad divorces simply because you are fighting. If you are too worried about money you will pay LOTS more money just fighting over money while you pay someone hundreds of dollars per hour just to fight over who owns the toaster. Let go of the worries over money. Once the divorce is finalized you can start over which is actually a feeling of freedom is you allow it to be.
- Money! Yes, MONEY seems to be so important right now! After all, just like all of the comedians say, she will get half of your stuff. SO WHAT! Odds are that she will get more than half in most bad divorces simply because you are fighting. If you are too worried about money you will pay LOTS more money just fighting over money while you pay someone hundreds of dollars per hour just to fight over who owns the toaster. Let go of the worries over money. Once the divorce is finalized you can start over which is actually a feeling of freedom is you allow it to be.